Selena confirmed her relationship with the music producer just last week, by responding “facts” to an Instagram post that speculated the two were dating, also adding, “He is my absolute everything in my heart.”

Since then SelGo hasn’t been shy about sharing her feelings for Benny, sporting and flashing a B ring, defending her mans to her many fans (who, let’s keep it 100, will never think anyone is good enough for Selener), and haters (who have nothing better to do).

“I don’t understand,” she said. “If you actually care about me. This is my happiest. If you don’t feel free to say whatever you want. But I will never allow your words to guide my life. Ever. I’m done. if you can’t accept me at my happiest then don’t be in [my] life at all.”

Selena also responded to a person who claimed Benny was “shading” her “years ago” with “lol yeah and he’s still better than anyone I’ve ever been with.”

Then in response to many trolls in the comments section of a follow up Popfactions account post, SelGo wavered between killing ’em with kindness, and telling it how it is. Responding to one person who referred to Benny as “so unhandsome” Selena to wrote back, “Feel bad for you.”

On the same post, Selena additionally clued us in to the timeline of her and Benny’s relationship when responding to a person’s comment about her being “mad” at her fans for their reaction to the dating news. Gomez wrote, “Not mad. It’s been 6 months bb. I will always defend my friends, family and fans till the day I die.”

Aside from sharing about her love life, Selena also used her rare (pun-intended) spree of social media activity to tease some of the new music she has on the way, and to get honest about cosmetic procedures.

In response to a comment about her appearance, Selena cheekily replied, “Hahahaha I’ve had Botox bb girl.”

On the same post, she teased the release of her forthcoming album, saying, “Omg I’m so excited it’s coming” when a fan asked for “good music.” And also noted music is coming “way before my birthday,” which btw for those who don’t know is in July.

Photo credit via Instagram / @popfactions

So — moral of the story — people need to chill, Benny makes Selena happy and we love it, new music is coming soon, and finally, should we also get Botox? Cause Selena be lookin’ *chef’s kiss*