Relationship expert explains crucial reason why Ariana Grande dates men fresh out of long-term relationships after The Wicked star is seen cosying up to Ethan Slater

Ariana Grande and her beau Ethan Slater have raised a few eyebrows with the speed their burgeoning romance has been developing.

The couple reportedly moved in together in September, less than two months after Ethan filed for divorce from his wife, and with Ariana’s own legal proceedings yet to even begin after splitting from husband Dalton Gomez.

But the couple are evidently not interested in taking things slowly, and enjoyed a romantic dinner at Mandarin Oriental hotel’s MO Lounge in Manhattan, New York City, on Saturday.

The Everyday hitmaker, 30, and her upcoming ‘Wicked’ movie co-star, 31, were ‘super flirty and touchy-feely’ as they enjoyed each other’s company while seated at a private table in the corner, according to reports in TMZ.

But this isn’t the first time the Thank U, Next singer has gone for a newly single man – her relationship with rapper Mac Miller started in 2016, shortly after his break-up with Nomi Leasure.

Does this mean there’s a pattern in Ariana’s dating choices? MailOnline spoke to relationship coaches Hayley Quinn and Kezia Noble, from hayleyquinn.com and kezia-noble.com to find out.

After Ariana deleted photos of husband Dalton Gomez, her rep confirmed that she is dating Ethan, pictured at Michelle Yeoh’s party, in July

Femme fatale? This isn’t the first time Ariana Grande has gone for a newly single man – her tragic relationship with rapper Mac Miller started in 2016, shortly after his break-up with Nomi Leasure

London-based Kezia Noble said that the key might be in the fact a man who has recently split from his partner is more likely to offer commitment.

‘Ariana might be looking to get into a long-term relationship and has fallen into the pattern of dating men who have just come out of relationships because she knows that will be more likely to commit, as they will be looking to fill the void of their ex girlfriends,’ she explained.

‘When people come out of relationships, they are a lot more vulnerable, they often want someone to take the place of their ex and will be more likely to jump into a relationship.

‘Starting a new relationship in order to numb the pain and loneliness from a break up is a common alternative people choose instead of taking time to heal and figure out what’s best for them’.

London-based Hayley also offered some insight into why Ariana might gravitate towards men who have possibly not given themselves enough time to get over their exes.

Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater relationship timeline: A look back at how the Wicked co-stars romance blossomed while both still married to other people

Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater’s relationship appears to have heated up in the two months since Wicked wrapped filming in the UK in mid-July.

The Dangerous Woman singer, 30, and Ethan, 31, are now living together in NYC, where Ethan is preparing for the November debut of his lead role in Spamalot on Broadway.

Ethan has filed for divorce from his wife of four years, Lilly Jay – with whom he shares a one-year-old son – but Ariana and her husband Dalton, 28, have yet to file.

As their love story continues to blossom, DailyMail.com has created a timeline of their relationship using only facts and photos.

Getting serious: Ariana and Ethan are now living together in NYC

MAY 15, 2021 – ARIANA MARRIES DALTON

‘I do’: Ariana and Dalton – who got engaged in December 2020 – married at her mansion in Montecito, California in 2021. Pictured here on their wedding day

NOVEMBER 4, 2021 – ARIANA IS CAST AS GLINDA THE GOOD WITCH IN UPCOMING FILM WICKED

Dream come true: On November 4, 2021, Ariana broke down in tears when she revealed on Instagram that she was cast to play Glinda in the upcoming film Wicked.

AUGUST 2022 – ETHAN AND WIFE LILLY WELCOME A BABY BOY

Baby joy: Ethan and wife of four years Lilly – who started dating 10 years prior – welcomed their first child together, which he announced on Instagram

NOVEMBER 11, 2022 – ETHAN CELEBRATES FOUR YEAR WEDDING ANNIVERSARY WITH LILLY

Soul partner: Ethan calls Lilly ‘the love of my life’ in a super sweet Instagram post, pictured, to celebrate their fourth wedding anniversary.

DECEMBER 7, 2022 – ETHAN JOINS WICKED

Celebrate: Ethan announced that he had joined the cast of Wicked on Instagram in a photo that showed his feet facing Ariana’s dancing shoes

DECEMBER 9, 2022 – WICKED BEGINS FILMING IN THE UK

Action!: Ariana and the cast begin filming Wicked in the UK, which she says was a ‘dream come true’

FEBRUARY 2023 – ETHAN’S WIFE LILLY AND THEIR BABY BOY SPOTTED WITH HIM IN UK

Family together: Ethan and Lilly (with their baby) were spotted in UK where is he filming Wicked. Ethan shared a photo of his son’s onesie, which reads Wicked Cute.

FEBRUARY 6, 2023 – ARIANA AND DALTON SPOTTED IN UK LEAVING RESTAURANT

Reunited: Ariana and her husband Dalton are spotted having crepes at a restaurant in the UK, pictured. Ariana and Dalton were also going on double dates with Ethan and Lilly during this time.

MARCH 5, 2023 – ARIANA AND ETHAN TAKE HIS BABY BOY OUT FOR A STROLL IN LONDON

Mother not invited: Ariana and Ethan took his son out for a stroll in London without Lilly.  Ariana was seen pushing the stroller at one point.

MARCH 13, 2023 – ARIANA AND ETHAN TOUCHY-FEELY AT MICHELLE YEOH’S OSCAR PARTY

Spouses not included: Ariana and Ethan were very touchy-feely at Michelle Yeoh’s Oscar party in London. They arrived and left together.

MAY 14, 2023 – ETHAN WISHES LILLY HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY ON INSTAGRAM, ARIANA LIKES THE POST 

Foreshadowing: Ethan wished his wife Lilly a Happy Mother’s Day on Instagram, calling her ‘loving’ and ‘wonderful.’ Ariana liked the post.

MAY 31, 2023 – ARIANA AND ETHAN GET VERY CLOSE ON WICKED SET, CAMERAS NOT ROLLING

Suss: Ariana and Ethan are photographed having an intimate talk filming Wicked when camera’s were not rolling. Sources tell DailyMail.com that they were ‘sloppy on set.’

In plain sight: Ariana and Ethan were photographed heading towards their trailer during a break from filming Wicked

JUNE 27, 2023 – ETHAN HAS HIS ARM AROUND ARIANA AS THEY CELEBRATE HER BIRTHDAY

Photos don’t lie: DailyMail.com published this photo showing Ethan with his arm around Ariana while celebrating her 30th birthday in the UK, weeks before they went public.

JULY 14, 2023 – FILMING ABRUPTLY ENDS ON WICKED SET DUE TO SAG / AFTRA STRIKE

It’s a wrap: Wicked ends filming and set is demolished, pictured, amid the SAG / AFTRA strike. Ariana and Ethan remained in the UK.

JULY 17, 2023 – ARIANA’S REP CONFIRMS THAT THE SINGER AND DALTON ARE DIVORCING

It’s over: Ariana’s rep confirmed to DailyMail.com that Ariana is divorcing Dalton, pictured here in 2022, after four years of marriage. Two months later, there are still no divorce papers.

JULY 20, 2023 – ARIANA DELETES DALTON WEDDING PHOTOS FROM INSTAGRAM

Peace out: Ariana deletes all photos of Dalton from her Instagram, including their wedding pictures. She later re-adds the non-wedding photos.

JULY 20, 2023 – ARIANA’S REP CONFIRMS SHE IS DATING ETHAN

Busy day: After Ariana deleted the photos of Dalton, her rep confirmed that she is dating Ethan, pictured at Michelle Yeoh’s party

JULY 26, 2023 – ETHAN FILES FOR DIVORCE FROM WIFE LILLY

Heartbreaker: Ethan filed for divorce from Lilly less than one week after Ariana splits with Dalton. He has asked for joint custody of their newborn baby.

JULY 26, 2023: ETHAN TURNS HIS INSTAGRAM TO PRIVATE AFTER BACKLASH FROM FANS

Rogue:  Ethan turns his Instagram to private after getting slammed with hateful comments on his Instagram

 

SEPTEMBER 6, 2023 – ETHAN RETURNS TO INSTAGRAM, DELETES ALL PHOTOS OF LILLY

One more time: Ethan returns to Instagram to promote his upcoming Broadway show, Spamalot. Ariana, who is living with her man, liked the post.

History repeats itself: Ethan’s upcoming show Spamalot debuts on Broadway mid-November. WIll Ariana attend the show?

‘Firstly, even when people seem to have it all, that doesn’t always equate to good self esteem,’ she said.

Hayley explained that while outsiders may view the songstress as a woman who can have any partner she choses, she may just not hold high enough standards for the men dates.

She also explained that just like many other people, she could be prone to rushing into a relationship as soon as someone has expressed any interest, rather than having the self esteem to step back and really look at what they offer as a partner.

‘People can rush into relationships when, deep down, they feel insecure about being alone. They can become addicted to the exciting first stages of romance, and simply overlook any red flags in their new partner.

‘This means if someone’s already in a relationship, it might be viewed as an exciting part of the “chase” to finally being able to be together; rather than a warning sign about their trustworthiness.

‘Ultimately, all long term relationships have to confront periods of mundanity, and you have to truly commit to someone, even as excitement ebbs and flows.

‘You build a relationship based on mutual values, shared relationship goals, and respect for one another. If you rely on needing excitement and uncertainty to feel romantically connected to someone, your relationships will be short lived.

‘In reality, chasing the “high” of excitement with a new love interest, is actually a fantastic way to stop you being really emotionally intimate and connected with someone’.

Source: Dailymail.com

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